Family and family life

🧑‍👩‍👧‍👦 TÉMA: Család, családi élet – Family and Family Life (B2)

📌 Lehetséges feladattípusok a szóbeli vizsgán:

Part 1 – Beszélgetés a vizsgáztatóval (interjú)

Általános kérdések a saját családról, családi rutinról, kapcsolataidról.

Part 2 – Képleírás + vélemény

Képen látható családi jelenet (pl. közös vacsora, piknik, családi ünnep).

Elmondod mit látsz, és véleményt mondasz (pl. fontos-e a családi időtöltés).

Part 3 – Véleménykifejtés, érvek pro és kontra

Téma: Pl. „Nuclear family vs extended family”, „Working parents and family life”, „Is family still important today?”

Part 4 – Közös döntéshozatal / szituáció

Pl. hova menjen el a család együtt nyaralni; milyen ajándékot vegyenek a nagyszülőknek.

💬 Témához kapcsolódó altémák és kulcspontok:

1. Családtípusok

nuclear family (szülők + gyerekek)

extended family (nagyszülők, unokatestvérek, stb.)

single-parent family

blended families (patchwork)

🗣️ Kérdés: Do you live in a big or small family? What are the advantages of each type?

2. Családi szerepek és feladatok

Who cooks? Who does the shopping?

How do you share responsibilities at home?

Traditional vs modern roles

🗣️ Kérdés: Should men and women do equal housework?

3. Családi időtöltés, ünnepek

weekend routines, playing board games, having meals together

birthdays, Christmas, Easter traditions

🗣️ Kérdés: How do you usually celebrate special occasions in your family?

💬 Témához kapcsolódó altémák és kulcspontok:

4. Generációs különbségek, konfliktusok

gap between parents and teenagers

communication issues, different habits

🗣️ Kérdés: Do you think it’s hard for parents to understand teenagers? Why/Why not?

5. Család szerepe a mai világban

is family more or less important now than in the past?

more divorces, fewer children, changing values

🗣️ Kérdés: Do people spend enough time with their family today?

6. Gyermeknevelés és felelősség

strict or lenient parents

rules at home, setting limits, rewards and punishments

🗣️ Kérdés: What’s the best way to raise a child?

📌 Érvelős feladat (B2 – Opinion Discussion)

A szóbeli nyelvvizsga egyik legfontosabb része az érvelés. Ebben a feladatban kapsz egy állítást, amire önállóan kell reagálnod kb. 2 percen keresztül. El kell mondanod, egyetértesz-e vele vagy sem, majd érvekkel, példákkal alá kell támasztanod a véleményedet.

A vizsgán figyelnek arra, hogy:

világosan kifejtsd az álláspontodat,

logikusan építsd fel a mondandódat (bevezetés – érvek – ellenérvek – lezárás),

változatos szókincset és nyelvtani szerkezeteket használj,

személyes példákkal, tapasztalatokkal is alátámaszd a mondandódat.

Nem kell igazat mondanod – csak jól kell kommunikálnod. A nyelvhasználatot, nem a véleményedet értékelik.

A felkészüléshez segítséget kapsz:

Előre kidolgozott érvelős témákat

Minden témához pro-kontra érveket,

Hasznos kifejezéseket, példamondatokat,

És külön Quizlet szólistát, hogy a kulcsszavakat is gyakorolni tudd.

Ez segít abban, hogy önállóan is fel tudj készülni, és ne érjen meglepetésként semmilyen téma a vizsgán.

„Children should spend more time with their grandparents.”

✅ Érvek mellette (I agree):

They can learn from their experience

→ “Grandparents often have a lot of life experience and wisdom, so children can learn valuable lessons from them.”

(A nagyszülőknek sok életbölcsességük van, amit átadhatnak a gyerekeknek.)

It strengthens family bonds

→ “Spending time together helps create stronger emotional connections and a sense of belonging in the family.”

(Az együtt töltött idő erősebb kötődést és családi összetartást alakít ki.)

They pass down traditions and stories

→ “Grandparents often share family history, traditions and customs, which helps children understand their roots.”

(A gyerekek a nagyszülők által ismerhetik meg a családi múltat és hagyományokat.)

They offer emotional support

→ “Grandparents can provide love and attention, especially when parents are busy or stressed.”

(A nagyszülők sok szeretetet és figyelmet tudnak adni, főleg, ha a szülők elfoglaltak vagy idegesek.)

„Children should spend more time with their grandparents.”

❌ Ellenérvek (I disagree):

Lack of energy or patience

→ “Older people may not have the energy to play with children or keep up with their needs.”

(A nagyszülőknek már nem biztos, hogy van elég energiájuk a gyerekekhez.)

Different values or old-fashioned views

→ “There can be a generation gap, and grandparents may teach things that parents don’t agree with.”

(Lehet, hogy a nagyszülők mást tanítanak, mint amit a szülők szeretnének.)

Busy schedules

→ “Children already have school, homework, and activities, so there’s not much free time left.”

(A gyerekek elfoglaltak, sok a tanulnivaló és a különóra, így kevés az idejük.)

Összefoglalás (Conclusion tip):

„To sum up, spending time with grandparents can be very beneficial for children, but it also depends on the family’s lifestyle and the grandparents’ health and availability.”

(Összefoglalva: a nagyszülőkkel töltött idő sokat adhat a gyerekeknek, de ez nagyban függ a család életmódjától és a nagyszülők állapotától.)

💬 Állítás: “Children should spend more time with their grandparents.”

Well, I personally agree with the statement that children should spend more time with their grandparents. In my opinion, grandparents play a very important role in family life, and there are many reasons why their presence is valuable for children.

First of all, grandparents often have a lot of life experience and wisdom, and they can teach children things that even parents sometimes cannot. They can share personal stories from the past, talk about how life was when they were young, and pass down important family traditions. This helps children understand their roots and strengthens their sense of identity.

Secondly, spending time with grandparents can also help build stronger emotional bonds within the family. Many grandparents are very loving, patient and caring, and children can feel safe and supported around them. This is especially helpful when parents are too busy or stressed with work, because grandparents can offer extra attention and stability.

Of course, I understand that there are some arguments against this idea. For example, some grandparents may be too old or tired to look after children, or they may have old-fashioned views that parents don’t agree with. Also, children today are very busy with school, homework and extracurricular activities, so it’s not always easy to find time.

However, I still believe that even a small amount of time spent with grandparents – like a weekly visit or phone call – can make a big difference. It’s not about spending the whole day together, but rather about creating a connection and keeping the relationship alive.

To sum up, I think that spending time with grandparents is a wonderful opportunity for children to learn, feel supported and be part of a close-knit family. It may not always be easy to organise, but it’s definitely worth the effort.

💬 Állítás: “Nowadays, traditional family roles are changing.”

Well, I completely agree with the statement that traditional family roles are changing nowadays. In the past, it was very common for the father to be the breadwinner and the mother to stay at home, take care of the children, and do the housework. But today, the situation is quite different in many families.

First of all, more and more women have full-time jobs and successful careers. This means that housework and childcare need to be shared more equally between parents. In many households, both the mother and the father cook, clean, and look after the children. I think this is a positive change, because it helps create balance and fairness in the family.

Secondly, fathers today are more involved in their children's lives than before. They take their kids to school, help them with homework, or even stay at home as full-time dads if the mother earns more. These changes show that modern families are more flexible, and roles depend on personal choices, not just traditions.

Of course, some people still prefer the traditional model, and there’s nothing wrong with that. In some cultures or families, it’s still common for the mother to stay at home. But I believe that the most important thing is that family members support each other and find a system that works for them.

To sum up, family roles are definitely changing, and I think that’s a good thing. Gender should not decide who does what in the family. What matters is cooperation, respect, and shared responsibility.

💬 Állítás: “Parents should be stricter with their children.”

Personally, I don’t fully agree with the idea that parents should be stricter with their children. Of course, some rules and discipline are important, but being too strict can often do more harm than good.

First of all, children need to feel loved, supported and free to express themselves. If parents are too strict, children may feel afraid, insecure or even rebellious. In many cases, very strict parenting leads to poor communication and a lack of trust between parents and children.

Secondly, every child is different, and what works for one may not work for another. Strict rules may stop bad behaviour temporarily, but in the long run, it’s more effective to explain things, set clear boundaries and talk things through. In my opinion, children learn more when they understand why something is wrong, not just because they’re punished.

That said, I do think that some parents today are too lenient. They don’t say “no” often enough, and they let their kids do whatever they want. This can also cause problems, because children need structure and guidance.

So, the ideal approach is balance. Parents should be firm but fair. They should teach respect and responsibility, but also show love, patience and understanding.

To sum up, I believe that being a parent means finding the middle ground between being too strict and too relaxed. Children need both rules and love to grow up into confident, kind and responsible adults.

💬 Állítás: “In the future, fewer people will get married.”

I tend to agree with the statement that fewer people will get married in the future. We can already see this trend in many countries, especially among young people, and there are several reasons why this might continue.

First of all, many people today believe that marriage is not necessary to prove love or commitment. Couples often live together for years, have children, and share responsibilities without ever getting married. They feel that a piece of paper doesn’t change the relationship.

Secondly, financial reasons also play a role. Weddings can be very expensive, and some couples prefer to spend that money on travelling, buying a home, or saving for the future. In uncertain economic times, marriage is often not a top priority.

Another important factor is that people are more focused on their careers and personal goals. Many prefer to wait until they feel completely ready, or they choose to stay single. Society has become more accepting of different lifestyles, so there’s less pressure to follow traditional paths.

However, it’s also true that many people still dream of a wedding and see it as an important life milestone. Marriage can provide legal and emotional security, and some believe it creates a stronger family bond, especially when raising children.

To sum up, I believe that although marriage will not disappear completely, it will probably become less common in the future. People will continue to form families and long-term relationships, but in more flexible and personal ways than before.

💬 Állítás: “Modern technology is harming family relationships.”

I partly agree with the statement that modern technology is harming family relationships. On the one hand, it’s true that phones, computers and the internet can create distance between family members. On the other hand, technology can also bring families closer together if it’s used in a smart and balanced way.

Let me start with the negative side. Many families sit in the same room, but everyone is looking at their own screen – watching videos, playing games or scrolling through social media. This reduces face-to-face communication and can make people feel isolated, even when they are physically together. Children might prefer to spend time online rather than talking to their parents, and this can hurt their relationship in the long run.

Moreover, people often spend too much time online, even during meals or family events. Instead of having meaningful conversations, they get distracted by notifications and messages. This shows a lack of attention and respect, which can cause conflicts at home.

However, I believe that technology is not the problem – the way we use it is. For example, video calls can help family members stay in touch if they live far apart. Sharing photos, messages or even playing online games together can strengthen family bonds.

To sum up, modern technology can harm family relationships if it replaces real communication. But if we use it wisely and set limits, it can also be a tool that helps families stay connected. Like most things in life, it’s all about balance.

💬 Állítás: “It is better to grow up in a big family than in a small one.”

I think both big and small families have their advantages, but personally I agree that growing up in a big family can be better in many ways.

First of all, children in big families usually have siblings to play with and talk to. This helps them develop social skills, learn to share, and deal with conflicts. They are less likely to feel lonely, and they often learn teamwork and cooperation from a young age.

Secondly, in a large family, there is always something happening. Family events, birthdays, holidays – they are usually more lively and fun. There’s often a stronger sense of community, and older siblings can help take care of the younger ones, which can build close relationships.

Of course, growing up in a big family also has challenges. For example, there might be less personal space, and sometimes children have to compete for attention. Parents may also find it harder to give each child the same amount of time and support.

On the other hand, small families can offer more one-on-one time with parents, more privacy, and usually better financial support for things like education or hobbies. But it can also be lonely if there are no siblings to talk to or spend time with.

To sum up, I believe that growing up in a big family teaches many useful life skills and creates strong bonds between siblings. It may not always be easy, but it can be a rich and rewarding experience.

💬 Állítás: “Children should always obey their parents.”

I don’t completely agree with the idea that children should always obey their parents. Of course, respect and discipline are important in every family, but blind obedience is not always the best solution.

First of all, children are individuals with their own opinions, thoughts and feelings. If they are always forced to follow rules without asking questions, they might not learn to think independently or develop confidence. It’s important for them to understand the reasons behind rules, not just follow them blindly.

Secondly, sometimes parents can make mistakes too. They might give advice that doesn’t fit the child’s situation, or they may have old-fashioned views. In such cases, it’s okay for children – especially teenagers – to express their disagreement, as long as they do it in a respectful way.

That being said, I do believe that children need structure and guidance. Parents usually want what’s best for them, and in many situations, it makes sense to listen to their advice. For example, when it comes to safety, school, or important life decisions, parental experience can be really valuable.

In the end, I think the key is balance. Children should respect and listen to their parents, but also be encouraged to ask questions, make choices, and learn from their own experiences. Obedience should come from understanding, not fear.

To sum up, I believe that children should follow their parents’ guidance in most cases, but they also need space to grow, explore and express themselves. Mutual respect is more important than strict obedience.

💬 Állítás: “Young people should move out of their parents’ home as soon as possible.”

I partly agree with the statement that young people should move out of their parents’ home as soon as possible. I believe that becoming independent is an important part of growing up, but the timing depends on each person’s situation.

First of all, living alone or with roommates teaches important life skills, like cooking, managing money, doing housework and solving everyday problems. When young people move out, they become more responsible and self-confident. It also gives them more freedom to live their own life and make their own decisions.

Secondly, moving out can improve the relationship between parents and children. When you don’t live together anymore, there are fewer arguments, and you start to appreciate each other more. Visiting your family becomes something special.

However, not everyone can afford to move out early. Renting a flat or living alone is expensive, especially for students or people who don’t earn much yet. In some cultures, it’s completely normal to stay with your family until you get married or even longer. It can also be helpful if the family is close-knit and supportive.

To sum up, I think moving out is a good step towards independence, but it shouldn’t be rushed. People should do it when they are emotionally and financially ready, not just because society expects it.