consent English

• Burgerschap
• MBO
• Studiejaar 2

Todays plan

- Consent

- opinions

What type of relations and what kind of sexuality's do you know?

Relatie types

monogamous                  Long distance relationship

Open relationship                 

polygamous                  

Platonic relationship             

LAT relatie

Homosexual

asexual relationship                           

Types of sexuality 

Hetrosexual.                        Pansexual

Homosexual.                       Demisexual

Bi-sexual

Polysexual

Asexual (ace)

In the news

In een relatie zitten met meerder mensen heet?

1. Monogaam
2. Heterogeen
3. Homogeen
4. Polygaam

You are in a steady relationship but sleep with others

Is okay

Is not okay

A girl wears provocative (sexy) clothing to school

Normal

Not normal

A teacher calls a student cute

Is okay

Is not okay

somebody under the influence of alcohol can give valid consent

Agree

Disagree

A tennis teacher (18 yo) was a relationship with his student (16 yo)

Is okay

Is not okay

It is okay to send naked pictures to a person you trust

Agree

Disagree

Sexuality is a normal thing that we should be able to talk about.

Agree

Disagree

Five conditions for consent 

1. Freely given: There are no negative consequences at the moment that someone does nto engage in sexual acts. In no way is there pressure (implicit or explicit) or are promises made 
2. Reversible: At any moment someone can change their mind if they want to continue or not 
3. Informed: Everyone who is particpating in the sexual acts know what is happening and what the conseuqences are. Lying to get someone in bed is NOT consent 
4. Enthusiastic: The people wanting sex, show they are enthusiastic. Freezing up, no response and doubt is NOT consent 
5. Specific: There is specifically asked for what is happening. i.e: May I kiss you?

Are you okay with this?

The persistent pursuit of someone

Yes

No

Someone touches your arm while you're speaking with them

Yes

No

Repeated invitations to sexual acts

Yes

No

Your boss/teacher/manager asks you on a date

Yes

No

Someone likes all your social media posts/photos

Yes

No

A teacher always leans over your shoulder and puts an arm around you

Yes

No

Someone tries to kiss you when you've already said no

Yes

No

Photos you sent in confidence are shared with others

Yes

No

You get your butt pinched in a busy pub/club

Yes

No

Casus

- Make a group of 4 students

- Read the front of the casus and answer the questions (5 min)

- Discuss together

- Read the back of the casus and answer the questions (5 min)

- Discuss together

STD

STD means: sexual transmittable disease 

How do you get a STD?

What types of STD's are there?

soa krijg je door slijmvlies contact:

seks, pijpen, beffen.

chlamydia, gonorroe, hiv/aids, hpv

soa krijg je door slijmvliescontact en zoenen: herpes

soa krijg je van persoonlijke spullen:

hepatitis B, genitale wratjes.

STD - test

• Till 25 years 
• Free
• Anonymous
• At least 1 time a year 
• GGD

https://www.ggdhaaglanden.nl/soa.htm

STD's

• Hundred thousands of people per year get a STD 
• Most common: chlamydia
  
• Reason for STD's: not using protection 
• Unknowingly transmitted 
• One-night-stand: 4 out of 10 don't use condoms

Help?

Veilig Thuis via 0800 2000 

Centrum Seksueel geweld (CSG) 0800 0188

Mentor or others at school  

Pressing charges - police