Getting on and Falling out

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• Special Education

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As a class, let's create a list of the top 10 reasons why people fall out...

1.                                                                 6.

2.                                                                7.

3.                                                                8.

4.                                                                9.

5.                                                               10.

Yes

No

I need some volunteers.

I will give you a post-it note with a word written on it.

You need to create a freeze frame of that word for the class to guess. You may need to choose some peers to help you out!

Watch video on Jigsaw

Watch on Jigsaw

What was the first thing the man in the video said someone should do who has fallen out with someone?

1. Ignore them
2. Say sorry
3. Take responsibility for their part in the conflict
4. Nothing

What else should you do if you have fallen out with someone?

Ignore the other person's views

See both sides

Only make up if they say sorry

Refuse to be friends ever again!

Which of these best describes what empathy is?

1. Stepping on someones toes
2. Stepping into someone else's shoes

If you cannot resolve the conflict what might be the best thing to do?

1. Let the friendship go, heal and move forward
2. Turn everyone against them
3. Steal their other friends
4. Be unkind to them forever

Creates conflict

Resolves conflict

Task

Act It Out – Bad Way vs Better Way

“We’re going to see two ways to handle a problem.”

Each group will:

Act out the “bad way” (e.g., shouting, ignoring)

Then act out a “better way” using simple strategies:

Calm voice

Saying how you feel

Listening

Finding a solution