Mentor lesson - Boundaries in friendships & relationships

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In deze les zitten 12 slides, met interactieve quizzen, tekstslides en 1 video.

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Slide 1 - Tekstslide

  • Today's topic is all about boundaries in friendships and relationships. 
  • By the end of this lesson, you will have a better understanding on what boundaries are. 
  • Next to that,  we hope you'll get to think about your own boundaries, and those of your friends.

Slide 2 - Tekstslide

How would you define a boundary?

Slide 3 - Woordweb

Why boundaries are important
  • Creating a healthy sense of identity and self-awareness
  • Respecting boundaries leads to more healthy relationships overall. 

Slide 4 - Tekstslide

Setting boundaries can sound a bit vague. How would you set a boundary for yourself?

Slide 5 - Open vraag

Verbal & non-verbal cues
  • Crossing a boundary can lead to different reactions:
  1. Verbal: telling, yelling, texting, gossiping
  2. Non-verbal: ignoring, walking away, being grumpy, pushing, crying

Slide 6 - Tekstslide

Can you think of more verbal or non-verbal cues?

Slide 7 - Open vraag

Slide 8 - Video

Respecting boundaries
  • Setting boundaries is important, but respecting boundaries is just as (or even more) important!
  • But... how do you know that you are (about to) cross a boundary of someone else? 
  • What tips are useful when thinking about respecting boundaries? (think of the video)

Slide 9 - Tekstslide

Sharing our stories
Did you ever experience a boundary crossing situation?  Or did you ever hear about a situation that comes to mind right now?

Slide 10 - Tekstslide

Exercise: analyzing different scenarios
1. Divide your paper into 3 sections, 1 for each scenario.

2. Determine the following (write answers on poster): 
• How are the 2-people feeling?
• What verbal/non-verbal cues could be given to set boundaries in the scenario? 
• What verbal/ non-verbal cues could be given to respect the boundary that is set?

3. For scenario 3, you and your group will try to provide advice to your friend. Write down
your answers.

Slide 11 - Tekstslide

To take home
Sometimes boundaries are hard to identify. If that is the case, remember that it is ok to ask and clarify. All of you deserve to be safe and comfortable in a relationship.

Slide 12 - Tekstslide